Choosing crystals?

[mathanisa]

How can you choose your crystals and how do you mix and match them...

I'm new to using crystals, but right now I really need help to become permanent in my job and be able to climb fast into a new position...

Which crystals should I use and how???????

[Drachemond]

Hi Mathanisa,

This is an excellent question! Most of the time, when selecting a stone, you must try and channel its energies in order to see if they connect with your own. This can be done by holding the stone, but I find for myself nowadays I can channel the energy by just looking at the stone. This system can take a while to get used to since you must get familiar with using crystals on a regular basis.

Since you are looking for something specifically related to work and security (permanent position), I would suggest using stones associated with the color red or the root chakra. These stones have great grounding abilities which should really help in this situation. You should also use stones of the color blue, associated with the throat chakra. These are good for promoting communication with others in your surroundings.

The first stone I would suggest using, is the Garnet. It is related to the heart and it is an excellent spiritually healing stone. If you start by meditating with this stone, it will cleanse your chakras and will help you get prepared with using the other stones for the intention you will be focusing on. It will also help balance your emotions and provide clarity when trying to focus on your intentions. If you manage to get a square cut Garnet, it is said to bring success in business matters.

The next stone you could use is Black Tourmaline. This stone will help ground negative energies and replace them with positive ones. It will promote a sense of security at work by giving you a positive attitude no matter what the circumstances. It can also help disperse tension and stress and increase physical vitality. Tourmaline can also banish any feelings of victimization and will attract inspiration as well as prosperity.

Another stone you could use is Blue Lace Agate. It can be effective for activating the throat chakra, to let your expressions free of thoughts and feelings. It is a great nurturing stone as well as being supportive. It is said to neutralize anger and frustration. In this I believe it would be beneficial since it can help rid you of feelings of frustration (if applicable) and replace them with patience and will assist with verbal expression of thoughts. It will dissipate mental stress and promote clarity of mind for better communication.

This is a good base, the stones suggested here are very common and easy to find. Always make sure you cleanse your stones properly first before using them. There are many ways to cleansing your stones. A detailed list can be found in the following post:
http://www.esotericforum.com/showthread.php?t=146

A great way to use stones is by doing a short meditation while holding them and focusing your energy and intention what you are looking for. Start by meditating on the Garnet's energies. This will cleanse your chakras and prepare them for the real show.

Next, use the Tourmaline, since you mainly want grounding at your job and need help getting a secure position. Then use the agate. This will promote good communication with others and give you a positive attitude.

Hope this helps with your question, and keep me posted on any developments or if you have any follow-up questions don't hesitate to ask.

Drach

[mathanisa]

Ok so I tried it.. Purefied them with the smock of sandalwood and as I was holding them I became quit dissoriented.. Is that normal?

I could feal the power emitting from them: the energy was strong... I made a pouch with a few crystals.. and today decided to wear it at work. First thing that happen is that one of my co-workers who used to be blunt with me was all softy and even emotional around me... wierd.

My supervisor was all happy to see me and encouraged me to go forth with the work of the day, and that they will help me to understand more. Then she told me that after her meeting she will teach me some new stuff about my possible long term position if I pass the first step which is to become permanent....

And to top it all of last night my supervisor boss told me that only one other person was kept for the interview for the position I'm in, so I only have one nemisis, but they don't work in the same position I'm in... wierd no?!?

[Celtaur]

Sounds like things are going well. I would like to point out though, that it's important to not associate all of your experiences with your stones. Although they may be having a positive influence, life is about cycles, and things are likely to go through both ups and downs and can change regularly. You may need to look at numerous factors that can influence your day to day situation. For instance, if you are still using your stones in a few days and things are a little less positive, you may wonder "Why aren't my stones working? what's going on?"

I think the important thing is to work with your stones and adjust them accordingly along with the changes that happen in your life. You may need to add a stone at certain times, clear your stones regularly, and work with them dynamically along with understanding the other influences on your life, for example astrological influences.

I think Drachemond gave you some great suggestions to get you started with your stones relative to your situation. I'm sure things will work in your favor if you progress with your direction, and looking at things from a positive, creative perspective.

[mathanisa]

Thank you for the advice... I never thought of it that way before.... :-)